Research finds perfectionism rising among college students, with fear of failure and judgment growing faster than the drive to achieve. You have described children who receive attention only when they achieve something and end up bound to proving themselves for life. Does today's perfectionism among young people grow from the same root?
Sources
- Perfectionism takes toll on young adults’ mental health: Study
The pursuit of perfection is on the rise among college students, with fear of failure and judgment growing faster than the drive to achieve
Doni's answer
I'm curious what kind of study this is. I imagine it would differ considerably depending on the country. I don't know what group is being referred to, but if perfectionism is increasing among the younger generation, I don't think it can be explained by generalizing from the mechanism in the example I mentioned earlier. Focusing more on fear and loss is a natural human tendency, so the candidate causes for that phenomenon that I can guess at right now are an increase in opportunities to be exposed to such negative feedback (social media being the typical example), or an environment where it is difficult to form the strong attachments that would allow a person to protect the self from that loss.
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어떤 연구인지 궁금하네요. 아마 국가에 따라서도 크게 차이날 것 같습니다. 어떤 집단인지 모르겠지만 청년세대에서 완벽주의가 늘어난다면, 제가 이전에 언급했던 그 예시의 기제로 일반화하여 설명하긴 어렵다고 봅니다. 두려움과 손실에 더 집중하게 되는건 인간의 자연스러운 특성이니, 그러한 부정적 피드백에 대한 노출 기회가 증가했거나 (대표적으로 SNS), 그 손실에서 자아를 보호할 수 있게 해주는 굳건한 애착의 형성이 잘 되지 않을 환경 정도가 지금 짐작할 수 있는 그 현상의 원인 후보 같습니다.